Why do most people find it difficult to stick with something long-term? The issue is usually not about self-discipline or willpower, but about being unable to endure phases without positive feedback for an extended period. Many believe that the opposite of persistence is giving up, but that's not accurate. The true opposite of persistence is disappointment. Once you frequently feel disappointed during the process, your actions will be interrupted by emotions. A common mistake is deciding whether to continue doing something based on "whether short-term results are smooth." If things go well, you keep going; if not, you negate it, and disappointment arises, leading to eventual abandonment. However, in reality, whether progress is smooth only affects whether the method needs adjustment, not whether to continue. Any valuable outcome will inevitably involve delays, fluctuations, and uncertainty. Those who can persist long-term are not necessarily more emotionally positive, but have a more objective cognition. They do not judge the value of the task based on temporary results, nor do they equate setbacks with failure. The true obstacle to action is never the difficulty itself, but the way we interpret difficulties. Results come from actions; actions are influenced by emotions; emotions stem from beliefs. When beliefs contain unrealistic expectations, reality will inevitably create gaps, which are experienced as disappointment, causing actions to be interrupted. Therefore, the essence of long-term perseverance is to reduce the interference of disappointment with behavior. Calibrate cognition with rationality, replace negation with adjustment, and counter emotional fluctuations with continuous action. True strength is not the absence of setbacks, but the ability to no longer let disappointment control actions.

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