The meaning of having no bias is not to define anyone. When you do something for others, it is your matter, not theirs. Before you do it, just give without expecting anything in return. You will only gain peace and happiness. Your mindset will be very stable, and you will rarely feel distressed. In short, it’s about being indifferent to gains and losses, and valuing yourself. If you gain, I am grateful; I cherish it. If I lose, it’s my fate; I move on. Do not dig into the roots or ask questions, do not deliberately expose things that cannot be changed, never entangle with people and matters that are not related to you, and do not get close. If you don’t want to do something, if it’s to please others, or if it makes you feel wronged, then don’t do it.
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The meaning of having no bias is not to define anyone. When you do something for others, it is your matter, not theirs. Before you do it, just give without expecting anything in return. You will only gain peace and happiness. Your mindset will be very stable, and you will rarely feel distressed. In short, it’s about being indifferent to gains and losses, and valuing yourself. If you gain, I am grateful; I cherish it. If I lose, it’s my fate; I move on. Do not dig into the roots or ask questions, do not deliberately expose things that cannot be changed, never entangle with people and matters that are not related to you, and do not get close. If you don’t want to do something, if it’s to please others, or if it makes you feel wronged, then don’t do it.